Before I share more about myself, let’s talk about why you might be here; whether you are single or in a relationship…
You want to overcome performance anxiety and have the confidence that you can sexually satisfy a partner.
You want to have reliable and sustained erections
You want to experience deeply pleasurable and exciting sex, whether or not you have an erection.
You want to be able to create the intimacy and connection that opens you both up to have magnificent sex.
You want to know exactly how to turn your partner on, so she is wildly satisfied.
You want to get your sexual libido back. You no longer want to feel guilty that you hardly ever feel like sex and that you are disappointing your partner.
You want to be the version of yourself that feels confident to ask for what you need and desire - both inside and outside of the bedroom. You are tired of being Mr Nice Guy and feeling held back, in saying what you feel. You are ready to create the safety within, so you can be courageously vulnerable and get your needs met.
You want to create a successful intimate relationship, built on the foundations of trust, safety, and communication, that lets you both know you are on the same team.
You want to create the kind of emotional, relational and sexual intimacy, that you fills you both up, that acts as part of the glue that keeps you together, that is connected, deeply satisfying and has you both asking ‘Why aren’t we doing this ALL THE TIME?!’
You are here because you may be at a point in your relationship or dating life, where you feel like giving up. You're lost in how to overcome a block to intimacy and pleasure, or you are at the stage where you’ve tried therapy, pills or self-help books and podcasts, but it’s still not got you to where you want to be. You may have even got to the stage where you are contemplating separation or divorce.
I am here to support you.
I'm a Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, with over 1500 hours of coaching experience. I am dedicated to guiding men, to create epic sex lives and deeply satisfying relationships, grounded in the foundations of love and safety.
For over a decade, I have been on a deep sexual healing and empowerment journey. Including; retreats around the world, talk and body-based therapy, weekly dance movement meditation classes, and studying for over 600 hours for a professional coaching certification in VITA™ (The Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach, created by Layla Martin).
The VITA™ method takes the most effective teachings of modern neurobiology, holistic healing, and coaching, and blends them with ancient wisdom from Tantra, Taosim and Sacred Sexuality.
Prior to becoming a certified Sex & Relationship Coach, I worked in the mental health and addiction fields. In addition to this, I was the Founding CEO of a national award-winning charity, for children and adults impacted by parental substance misuse. I ran this charity for 10 years and managed a national team of peer mentors and trained counsellors.
My journey of transformation
For over a decade, I immersed myself in the field of sexuality and body-based healing. My sexual empowerment journey has been vital to feeling a sense of wholeness. Like many women, I grew up in a sex negative culture, and a society that shamed women’s sexual expression. I internalised these messages from around me.
I was shut down emotionally, unable to open up to deep physical intimacy and believed that there was something inherently wrong with me, at my core. I suffered with anxiety in relationships, experienced shame around sex, and felt lack of trust in myself and intimate others. In hindsight, the deep yearning for sexual liberation was actually a calling, to come home to myself. It was a calling to heal layers of physical tension and holding patterns in my body, from the emotional impact of childhood trauma.
By doing the inner work, I was able to let go of the pressure to perform. Sex became more about pleasure. Sexual intimacy felt deeply satisfying, freeing and multi-orgasmic. I have tasted true sexual ecstasy, beyond what I ever thought was possible.
My erotic liberation has given me the gift of knowing how to easily access my sexual energy and tap into it, as a source of life-force energy - whenever I want to. I’ve learned the profoundly freeing truth, that pleasure lives inside of me. I know how to feel alive, radiant and confident, from the inside out.
My Mind, Body, Energy method combines my 10+ years of experience in the fields of; sexuality, neo-tantra, mind and body healing, dance meditation practice, and sex coach certification. This is desire-led coaching, where we focus on what it is you want.
What you can expect - An approach that includes all of you, is trauma-aware, uses tools that are informed by modern neuroscience and holistic coaching. By addressing all three areas of your mind, body and energy, we don’t just talk through your challenges and desires, we bring about deep, long-lasting change, by feeling through your body.
Here are some of the results my clients have had...
Men have overcome performance anxiety and no longer feel stressed about sexually pleasing their partner.
Men have developed a deep-seated confidence that they can please their partner, regardless of whether they have an erection or not.
Men have developed the ability to be multi orgasmic and enjoy sex, in a much deeper and more expansive way.
After years of sexless marriage, men have been able to overcome the huge barriers to re-establishing the sexual bond with their partner.
Men get to a place of asking for what they desire sexually, without feeling they might offend their partner.
After months or even years, men have found their sexual spark again. They got their libido back, and felt sexual turn-on and excitement around sex.
If you are ready to focus on what you truly want and what is subconsciously holding you back, from experiencing your own version of success in sex and love, click the button below, to work with me.