When intimacy takes an unexpected backseat due to performance struggles, the standard advice or go to is almost always the same: "Just take a pill," "Try to relax," or "Get your testosterone levels checked." From quick fix medical ads on socials, to the pill right on display at the front of pharmacy counters, to well meaning friends, we are taught to view performance issues strictly as a physical defect. If the engine isn't revving, the assumption is that you must need new pa