Foreplay for the Energetic Erotic Style
What foreplay aka erotic bridges supports you to build your fire of turn-on? What would support you to get from a level 0/1/2 of turn-on,...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
Holding the Intention of Softness in Penis Play
How often do those of us who touch penises hold the intention in our mind that we are touching them to make them hard and joyfully...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
Activating your turn-on
How this happens might not look like you think it 'should'. When it comes to getting in touch with our sensual and sexual energy as...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
Slow and Relaxed Sex
We just don't see this role-modelled, on our screens, for men. What we see, time and time again, is Quick and Ready! To say this is...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
Blow Job
The language we use matters, when it comes to sexual intimacy. Our intentions matter. I'm not suggesting to stop using this phrase...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
Celebrating the courage to make a change
I celebrate all of the incredible people I work with and people that I connect with, for initial clarity calls!! You come onto the calls...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
You don't have to touch yourself to self pleasure
If you see yourself as someone who: - is turned on by word play - is sapio-sexual - needs to feel relaxed, to get turned on - is aroused...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
Sensual and energetic men
Mainstream media, movies and most porn, perpetuates the narrative of men conforming to the sexual erotic blueprint ONLY. This means that...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 3 min
A map for increasing sexual confidence and pleasure for men
In the initial sessions with men, what often comes up, is that men are looking for a map, to reignite their desire, feel more confident...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
Men; you get to flip the scripts of how you relate to your sex
The collective story may have you believing: - That you are not performing well in the bedroom - that sex is about performance - That...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
The gift of thinking with your penis
I wonder how many times men are told in their life that they only think with their penis? I am guessing well over a 100 times? Or more?...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 3 min
The longing and the knowing
I have reached this point in time, where I have really let go of the search to meet my beloved. And this is far from a place of...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
Claiming our aliveness
We live in a culture that... - shames our expression - stifles our voices - stunts our creativity - and stamps on our critical thinking...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
Ecstasy is Necessary
And.. I'm taking you with me To a place of remembrance of our innocence To the shores of safety felt deeply in our bones A deep grounded...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 4 min
Passive Aggression
I was recently asked as part of the wellbeing team at Zoe Clews & Associates to write about passive aggression and I jumped at the...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
Covert contracts
Are there any covert contracts that you would like to revisit that are no longer serving you? If we look back into the past, we will most...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
Rest as our birthright
I recently heard someone say at a conference, that resting is our birthright. Wow! And yet here we are, in a culture that shames us and...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 1 min
If your heart's not in it, your penis isn’t in it!
(For men, women, humans, penis owners) Time and time again I’m speaking with/working with men who feel they have a problem with their...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
Intimacy hacks 101
Thank you to those who have reached out to me privately to let me know that our masterclass series was a bit too honest, with the word...
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Emma Spiegler
- Jan 24, 2022
- 2 min
It's about so much more than sex
When couples start to notice the intimacy gap between them, that they are sharing less cuddles, less kisses, less hand holding, less...
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